Happiness depends on many different factors. But how happy you are mainly depends on you. Pay attention to your daily habits and you will understand that some of them are not really healthy or harmless. Here is a list of things you may be doing that won’t let you stay happy.
1. Striving to be right
People whose habit is to choose to be right in absolutely all situations suffer. Striving to be flawless is meaningless. Life is not about being perfect or knowing everything. Look around and you will see that there are no too many people who pay attention to your efforts. Don’t you then think it’s just a waste of time? After proving you are right there will be another situation or event where you will need to prove it all over again. This will never end and you get into a vicious circle. Instead of enjoying your life you do all possible to fight shadows. Your habit may ruin your connection with the society, your family and friends. Choose people over your harmful habit. Learn to relax and ignore the stuff that does not matter at all. Trying to make everybody agree with you is silly since you cannot change all people’s opinions and viewpoints.
2. Accepting other people’s limits
Other people’s limits should not change your perspectives on life. Your life belongs to you only. The fact is that most people stay passive and do not take the opportunities that life offers. They are either too lazy to move forward or think that they are not worthy of having anything better. Such people do not inspire. On the contrary, they make other people feel unhappy and more passive. Look for those who can stimulate and motivate you. You need someone who can teach you to deliberately remove your own limits and pay less attention to limits of other people. Reveal your full potential and make your dreams reality. Do not give up on your desires. It is fun to do something unusual. And once you achieve something wonderful, you feel happy and successful. Being unstoppable is a great feature that can help you gain happiness.