3. Aggression
You or your partner may get too emotional at times. Then you can see the typical aggressive behavior of the unstable person. Slamming doors, throwing things and punching furniture or walls are just some of the things an abusive and aggressive person can do. In an abusive relationship there might sometimes be a physical expression of anger. Control yourself or talk to a specialist if you cannot resolve this problem on your own. Ask your partner to see a doctor if he is irritable and nervous.
4. Anger problems
Pay attention to another red flag – your partner’s anger. You can also be an angry person. So if you know you may get angry, do not start a relationship unless you learn to manage your anger first. If you or your partner gets mad at other people, then they will inevitably get angry at you some day as well. It will lead to serious conflicts and abuse. All couples argue, but only those who can deal with issues without anger are happy.