3. They feel on a different page
Is one of you planning to discuss his/her expectations? Think twice before you decide to write a long speech lasting for a few minutes. Your partner’s vows might be much shorter and written in an absolutely different style. The situation will look and sound awkward if one of you is serious and formal while the other one is humorous and playful.
4. They are overwhelmed with emotions
Your emotions should be kept out of the vows. We know how emotional people may get in such special situations. Your wedding day is a very important event in your life. There might be lots of words to say and plenty of feelings to express. Do it before or after the ceremony by presenting your partner a letter.