Stop Taking Score

Do what you feel can make your beloved one happy and do not wait anything in return. It’s no business or trade – what you do for your partner should be done from the bottom of your heart. Taking score of what you have done for your partner is useless. Love does not keep score. If you feel you tend to do more of good deeds than your partner, your relationship is not really sincere. Listen to your intuition and see how you feel after doing something nice for the man you love. Is it frustration and disappointment or does it make you feel satisfied and happy?

Stop Trying To Change Your Partner or Yourself

Analyze the reasons that made you fall in love with the person you are with right now. Was it his character? Manners? Looks? There could have been more reasons why you liked your partner. Admit the fact that people are not perfect. We make mistakes sometimes and we may be wrong from time to time. Do not expect your beloved one to be perfect 24/7. Let your better half be himself. No doubt you should respect yourself as well. Love your qualities and develop new ones. You can transform yourself. But do this only if you feel you need it. Never try to be someone who you are really not. It is destructive for your individuality. The person you are is exactly who and what your man fell in love with.