3. Escape
There is no need to waste your time with someone who does not deserve your time and attention. If your date is going really bad, then do not hesitate to let him know that you are not enjoying your time with him. You can be either straightforward or not too direct. Be polite, though and explain what it is that made you feel so disappointed.
4. Deal breakers and things that cannot be tolerated
Why not try and weed out major deal breakers before it’s too late? If you know there are some certain things you cannot tolerate, then be prepared to stop the relationship if you see that your date is not your perfect match. Abusive men, smokers, unemployed guys and those using drugs are all deal breakers. Do not waste your time thinking that you can change his life. You deserve someone better.