You know you are strong enough to cope with every issue. Every couple goes through hard times. Your partner might have upset you again and that was the last straw this time.

We fully understand you and are ready to teach you to make your fight as smooth as possible. Learn to handle conflicts in a safe and effective way by following these four steps:

1. No more pursuing him – let him have a break.

Both of you need some time off. Before you continue the argument, think well if fighting is the only way to resolve the issues. After some time you will be surprised to find out that most of what you fought over could have been discussed. Your partner loves you and feels committed to you. He is not trying to ignore you, he just wants to avoid a conflict.

2. Promise to each other that you will both change for the better.

No one is perfect and there are always plenty of opportunities for development and improvement. Quit being overly demanding. Blaming each other for something will not help either. Be realistic and first judge yourself before you judge your partner.