3. Making yourself a priority in your life
Do not believe those who say you are too selfish. The problem with most of us is that we are too busy to take care of ourselves. Out families, children, colleagues and other people keep reminding us that they need us. We are trying to make everybody happy by providing our support without realizing that we cannot function well enough if we do not receive support from others. Be wiser and do not let other people use and abuse your kindness or steal your time. First, try and focus on self-development. It is not egotistical to live your life the way you want it. We suggest you should put your own needs first and help others only afterwards.

4. Choosing your dates
Who we choose to date can also change our life for the better. In some cases we simply trust others and let them choose dates for us. You are the only individual who has the right to determine whether you like males or prefer to date girls. Your preferences may bother other people, but you should never pay attention to other opinions since your private life belongs to you and you do not have to pretend to make your friends or family members happy. You are free to date whoever you feel like dating.