5. You won’t own everything because he cheated.

Infidelity is not a crime. It is painful and when you find out that your spouse has been cheating on you, you’re very likely to want to do something to hurt him back. Nevertheless, the innocent spouse is not entitled to more assets and cannot ask to punish the cheater by taking his money or property. The only possible thing is for you to get more money in alimony. But how much you get will depends on the way the finances work out.